The Power of the Confident Mindset
hen you know with certainty (whether it really was right or wrong is irrelevant) you act with decisiveness. This is the power of confidence and will give that person the ability to succeed in their goals. As well, it also gives that person the ability to persuade others…If you are unsure, if you are doubtful, who is going to follow you?
Deep down we all have doubts about something…. anything…
We hope someone is less doubtful and can give us the answer we aren’t sure how to find.
When you find that person
… who seems to know what they are about
… who isn’t plagued with issues of esteem
… who isn’t worried about what you might think
… who has a vision and
… who conveys it with conviction
That person compels and persuades you to follow.
But, is that person any better than you?
Not really…the only thing that differentiates that person from you, is their willingness to step out and expose themselves, and possibly fail, and go where others don’t want to go.
This is something anyone can mentally choose to do.
BE that person… your life will come under your power when you no longer feel you have to rely on someone else’s sureness to get what you want, when you want.
Just DO and it will come!
December 6th, 2007 at 5:54 am
I love the blog post it is so excellent. Especially the line that reads “BE that person……… your life will come under your power when you no longer feel you have to rely on someone else’s sureness to get what you want, when you want”
Did you write that yourself? I hope people read that line over and over and over again because when you truly GET that. Everything falls into place.
So thanks for sharing that!
December 6th, 2007 at 6:58 am
Thanks for the comment about my blog post. Empowerment of the mind, positive thinking, moving beyond failures, accepting who you are and LIKING YOURSELF are very strong beliefs in my life. I had come to these thoughts over the last 3 years slowly, and when I realized who held the power…ME….Oh My Gosh!!!! No one can really stop you after that…..